Questions to Ask Before Marriage

I am real serious with my boyfriend we love each other very much and we have a very strong relationship. He has a 3 year old daughter who he just got full custody of. She has been living with her mom but her mom is on drugs and is an alcoholic and hasn’t been taking care of her. My boy friend has been in the army so he hasn’t had much contact with her but now he is getting full custody since her mother is an unfit mother. Just recently my boyfriend has taken in his 6 year old cousin….. He now has custody of two kids (both girls).. My question is I want to know from others the main problems when marrying into a family like this? I know a lot but I wonder if you would also tell me the best thing that you would do if you were in this relationship.. There isn’t any thoughts of mine wanting out because of the children but I know that children affect your life your marraige and I want the best for them as well. Any words of advice would be great! THANKS…